"In simplifying we are trying to move away from excess and towards balance."
- Kim John Payne Simplicity Parenting
Laura, over at Wife, Mother, ATHLETE wrote about a book called Simplicity Parenting
(2009, New York, NY: Ballantine Books), by Kim John Payne, M.Ed. and Lisa M. Ross. Her post made me check this book out at the library and then read it over the next few days, whenever I had the chance. As crazy as it sounds, I felt like this book was written for our family. Now don't get me wrong, my wife has done an outstanding job raising our children and I like to think that even though I haven't been fully there for them, I've done a bit to make sure they are sheltered, fed and clothed.
As with so many other middle-class families, we suffer not from want but from abundance. This book is about decluttering your life, becoming invested in the family, and making time for connections often missed because of school, work, sports schedules, television and other screen time. What the authors suggest are simple ways you can pare down the choices in your life, to make things simpler, easier, and more attuned to a life well lived.
As it turns out, my wife is on spring break with the kids, so some of my excitement is muted, due to not having her to bounce all this off of. However, I'm also taking this time to start the decluttering process, cleaning the house, and getting my arguments ready thoughts together. I'm somewhat an all or nothing type of guy, so the delay in seeing her is actually a benefit, so my wife is not bowled over by my new found exhilaration.
In a neat coincidence, I was looking through my wife's library basket and found It's All Too Much
(2007, New York, NY: Free Press), by Peter Walsh, who apparently is a professional organizer from TLC's hit series "Clean Sweep." Seems we're on the same wave length.
Transferring this to bloggy land, I've decided to do a little housecleaning. Over the weekend, I'll be combining several of my blogs into one enormous, over-the-top, SUPERBLOG! Kids Try Gear, Trail Running Project, and Endurance Gear Reviews will be no more - it doesn't really make sense to keep them separate, because they're all about me anyway (isn't everything?). My wife will be keeping her site though, because she needs to have an identity outside of being the wife of a superfamous celebrity blogger (that would be me, for those confused). If you haven't checked out Women's Endurance Gear, you are missing out! Trust me, not only is my wife the attractive half of this couple, she's also superior in pretty much every other way. Well, she does struggle to pee standing up, so I've got that.
(4/15/2011 - Laima has just posted her review over at Women's Endurance Gear - head over and read what she thought of this book!)
Do you have stuff on top of your other stuff, which is hidden behind the stuff you've forgotten about? Get rid of it, set it free. If it it comes back it's yours, if not,hunt it down and kill it it never was.
Transferring this to bloggy land, I've decided to do a little housecleaning. Over the weekend, I'll be combining several of my blogs into one enormous, over-the-top, SUPERBLOG! Kids Try Gear, Trail Running Project, and Endurance Gear Reviews will be no more - it doesn't really make sense to keep them separate, because they're all about me anyway (isn't everything?). My wife will be keeping her site though, because she needs to have an identity outside of being the wife of a superfamous celebrity blogger (that would be me, for those confused). If you haven't checked out Women's Endurance Gear, you are missing out! Trust me, not only is my wife the attractive half of this couple, she's also superior in pretty much every other way. Well, she does struggle to pee standing up, so I've got that.
(4/15/2011 - Laima has just posted her review over at Women's Endurance Gear - head over and read what she thought of this book!)
Do you have stuff on top of your other stuff, which is hidden behind the stuff you've forgotten about? Get rid of it, set it free. If it it comes back it's yours, if not,



These books definitely speak to me :)
ReplyDeleteAlthough probably not to the extent that you read about, but we're a pretty pared down family. When our kids were young, we would live 9 months in Switzerland and 3 months in Canada (four 4 years)...this lead to constant purging and it became a habit.
One of my mantras as a manager (aka captain of industry in my work life) is "Better is the enemy of good." You post kept making me think this applies in so many ways.
ReplyDeleteBlog consolidation - good call.
ReplyDeleteWonder if we can consolidate our social networks too? Bring Twitter, FB, Blogger, email, and texts all into on place -- there has to be an app for that right?
You and your book reviews have my library seeing more of me than usual. That book sounds right up my alley. I'm on it!
ReplyDeleteThat's cool that you were reading the first book and then found out your wife had a similar book...good to be on the same page. I have a habit of cleaning a lot and getting rid of things....I'm a minimalist, but the husband just keeps everything!!! it's maddening!
ReplyDeleteIs this an April Fools Day joke? Not the books, those sound awesome. I'm talking about the blog consolidation.
ReplyDeleteLove what Rockstartri said.
Well we had a flood last year that took care of a lot of crap. I just spring cleaned the oldest daughters closet this week and got rid of two big bags of stuff that went to goodwill. Life is simpler with less. Unless it's running gear than you can never have enough neat stuff to try!
ReplyDeleteI have the Peter Walsh book. It's great...so inspiring! I listened to it on tape once and it helped me make some changes in both how I did things and how I viewed my things. The second time I listened to it was too frustrating because I was ready to take some serious action but am married to a hoarder-lite who has never met a bargain he didn't love. (And don't go on arguing with me that I could pare down my OWN stuff, lol...I know, I know)
ReplyDeleteCan't wait to make a plan and get to it:)
ReplyDeleteMyliu!
I'm definitely down with minimalism (though not the "extreme" like some do). It's crazy how wasteful we are... I am constantly filling trash bags for the goodwill... Where did this come from? Good luck paring down!
ReplyDeleteOne of my fav ways to think of it is -- enjoy living life, not taking care of things.
Starting to pare things down myself. For me having too much stuff adds an element of stress. I used to save things thinking I would use them later, but I rarely do. Someone else might be able to use them now.
ReplyDeleteSound like some books I need to check out of the library... not going to buy them 'cuz that's counter to their story :)
ReplyDeleteHaving 4 kids who don't like to let go of their crap has made for a very cluttery mess. This is such a timely post for me.
Thanks!
Simplicity! I like it. Consolidation sounds good.
ReplyDeleteHappy Housework!
ReplyDeleteahahaha--love the comments on your wife. At least you can claim peeing standing up! And, she can claim superiority as well as a super-famous spouse!
ReplyDeleteI surely have too much running gear. But I do donate to an appropriate charity once or twice a year the stuff that's still in good shape.
ReplyDeleteI think it's a great idea to consolidate - for your family, your life, your house, your blog. :)
ReplyDeletespring cleaning... the air must be getting warm there...
ReplyDeletei definintely need check out this book. the year i had my last baby i took all kids out of everything. i knew baby #5 was gonna be crazy so i simplified. the kids had a hard time with it the first month...but it turned out to be the best school year ever. i would not have changed a thing. less stress for everyone and it was great to have everyone home.
of course now they've all hopped back to it...it only lasted for one school year...good times... :)
I need these books. Decluttering is my new theme and simplicity sounds perfect.
ReplyDeleteLooking forward to the consolidation!